I'm not usually one to dwell on mistakes...but there are just a few things I see practice parents doing that drive me up the wall. These are the honest mistakes you might make in an effort to help your child, but that are actually holding them back. #1: Giving the Wrong Choices Allowing choice is a great way to foster a sense of agency and ownership for your Suzuki child. However, you should only offer choices that don't include a wrong answer. Here are some examples of probl